— It is so important to be able to make positive statements about others because I’ve learned that some people have what I call a low-selfesteem and if negative things are said to them , they can feel really bad and feel like they arent accepted as who they are. I also have learned that people have this thing called self attack anxiety and they can get to a point where they will start to feel abnormal and want to do such crazy things to themselves and become really emotional and do such as cut themselves or commit suicide.